Journeying with God

This week, Ed began a discussion in church about the stages we think people progress through as they grow in their walk with God.  The five stages we have identified are spectator, passenger, voyager, hiker and trail blazer.  These are descriptions of a process that we have seen.  We recognized, for example, that people who are new to the idea of a faith community don’t come to a church, decide they want to continue on their journey with God, sign up for 15 ministries, join a Journey Group, establish a covenant group and ask about mentoring opportunities all in their first week.  Aren’t we brilliant?

Seriously, though, when a person first starts thinking through what he believes about God, he often starts by watching.  He starts noticing who in his community identifies themselves as a person of faith.  He might come to a worship service or two.  He might visit different houses of worship from different faiths or in different cultures.  He might ask a question or two to someone he knows and trusts. 

At some point, our spectator will likely identify a need in his life.  Either something will rise to the surface, or a crisis will occur.  If he finds that God seems to have some of the answers, or that those who claim to be followers of Christ understand and are willing and able to help him with his need, then he often will begin to learn more about that community of faith.  He might begin attending worship services more frequently.  He will usually begin developing friendships with people he meets on Sunday mornings or at Journey Group.  As he learns a little more about being on a journey with God, he might decide, “Yes, that’s something I want to do.  I want to see how this God who met my need works.  What does He want?  What is He like?”

Our spectator just became a passenger.  No one told him, “Hey, you really need to get a move on and ascend the ladder of holiness and perfection so you can be a passenger.”  The transition from spectator to passenger was one that he made as he grew in his walk with God.  We recognized a change and gave it a name.  The concerns I heard on Sunday morning included: we are putting people into a box and we’re judging people by giving them labels.

Not at all.  What we’re trying to do is to identify what Spiritual Growth looks like.  We want to recognize what triggers people to want to grow closer to God.  And as people grow closer with God, what are the milestones?  What decisions or changes or discoveries can we celebrate?  What opportunities can we, as a community, offer to encourage growth?  What can we encourage each person in our community to do on their own to discover where they want to grow and what that will look like?

What do you think about the spectator to trail blazer idea?  Can you identify points in your life or events that encouraged you to seek after God in a way you had never done before?  Will you share them here?

- Written by Alicia Hemphill

2 Responses to “Journeying with God”

  1. elaine Says:

    I think that one problem we face is how we think about goals. We tend to think that any stage prior to the goal is not success, or is failure. If I want to see the Grand Canyon, I don’t drive there and enjoy all the intermediate sights: I fly there, grumble about the airport security, then see the Grand Canyon. We’re into immediate gratification: If Ed tells us that our goal is to be a Trial Blazer, we see the intermediate steps as “less than.” This is why we need to continue embracing the journey idea. Life is meant to be a progression.

  2. Ed Says:

    I agree Elaine…we all want to get to the end. And in some ways that is good, but the reality is that it takes a lifetime to grow up…in every pathway! And there is no “prime of life” when it comes to the spiritual journey, there is always more, always better. I want to see us assess where we are and enjoy the idea that God calls us ahead into a great adventure with him. As we will see, it is not always easy, but it is always worth it. The Grand Canyon is great….but so is all that comes before it. Let’s enjoy the journey together…whatever sites we happen to be seeing right now.

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